The Perks and Pleasures of Being a Pillow Princess

Let’s spill the sexy tea sisters. How many times have you googled sex articles, religiously read Cosmopolitan, or watched porn right before you’re about to pull off a sexy, bad-bitch move in the bedroom to make your man happy? How many endless nights have you worked so hard, and gotten so little in return? Or given a week of blowjobs because Aunt Flow came to visit and Justin acts like he’s never seen a drop of blood in his whole damn life. Don’t even get me started about all the times woman just haven’t even come close to cuming.

Now it’s no lie that being dominant in the bedroom and making your man beg for mercy is anything short of pure bliss; and can be an intimate, climax inducing experience for both parties involved. But ladies let's cut the act. There is something so terribly toe curling about just getting fucked. That’s right, I’m talking about laying down and letting your man do all the work. All the thrusting, all the licking, all the touching. Just a damn good fucking. Because ladies once you become a pillow princess you are NEVER going to want to go back.

Quite recently I have entered an intimate relationship with a man who does just about everything in his power to please me sexually. Our first sexual encounter was a four hour long experience of cycling through sex and him going down on me. Now when I say that man ate me out for hours, I am not exaggerating in the least. Gone are the days of five minute pussy play that leave me frustrated beyond belief. This man takes his sweet ass time licking and sucking me like my pussy is the fountain of youth dripping in honey. I’m talking a thirty minute active, passionate, cluster fuck of oral love making. Each stroke of his tongue and rub of his fingers is thoughtful and targeted towards my pleasure, that leaves not only me moaning but him as well. Even tonight after 40 minutes of oral he sprawled out sweaty and gasping for breath, and verbatim stated, “Sorry I got tired so quickly.”

Shook is a gross understatement.

Now girlfriends lets talk about the sex. Even as I lay here typing, freshly fucked, I am at a loss for words. Multiple rounds upon multiple rounds that make me wonder why I was ever settling for a ‘one and done’ dick. Now the first time we had sex we did classic missionary, a typical move for first time intimacy, but it was FAR from anything boring. He has a gentle aggression about him, he pushes and pulls me hard where he wants me positioned, but cradles my body softly into him as he pounds my brains out. I genuinely think I’d be happy doing missionary with this man till I’m dead. He intentionally starts out slow, easing into it, until he's going so fast we’re considered a fire hazard; but each stroke is deep, full and pushed up and aimed right at my G spot.

Even when I’m on top he does not allow me to exert any energy whatsoever. He holds me in and fucks me from below till I am screaming. Ladies I’m blessed.

If sex is a sin then honey call me Lucifer because on sweet baby Satan himself this man is my personal one way ticket to hell.

Now, have I even so much as touched his dick all the times we’ve been intimate? Nope. Nada. Why? Because this man understands that if I suck his dick he’ll finish quickly and then we’d be unable to indulge in another round of sex. (His limit is four times, he refuses to continue past that point) He knows that his dick has a limit, unlike my pussy, and pleasuring me enhances both our overall sexual encounter. The other reason being that, I am a pillow princess, and I am PROUD. This man takes care of me, and that takes care of him. He worships my body and makes it his personal mission to make me cum. I don’t know if this kind of treatment will ever happen again in my life, so I am taking FULL advantage of this opportunity. Even today I jokingly mentioned to him all the head he was going to get during my period next week, and this man stated, “That’s what towels were made for.”

Men who’ve been in relationships for years can sometimes barely stomach the courage for period sex, yet this man I’ve know for two weeks has been planning on it? Expecting it? Looking forward to it? God fucking bless.

Now no matter what you choose to do sexually, whether a dominatrix, pillow princess, or anything in between; the most important thing is that both partners are being indulged and satisfied, by whatever means possible. For now I’ll stick to my pillow princess antics, and hopefully I’ll never have to settle for anything less.