Being a Sexual Woman: The Force of Nature the World Fears
Listen up horn dogs, I love every single damn one of you. I am a sexual woman. I love to cum. I love dick. I love to fuck. I love kink and being dirty. I love it all. I am not ashamed of that, and neither should any other woman who is a lover of sex. Never be afraid to own your sexuality, embrace it, and use it to your advantage. So often I see women, young, old and everywhere in between afraid to embrace their desires because of social construct. Fuck that shit. You should only care about a few people’s opinions and my golden rule is that that number of people should never exceed your fingers or toes. Those who matter don’t care and those who care don’t matter — didn’t your middle school Tumblr days teach you that queen.
Somewhere along the line it has come to be incorrectly understood that if you are a sexual woman then that is ALL you are; I think the fuck not sweetie. You can be a sexual woman, a strong woman, a smart woman, a successful, talented, inspirational woman. Who allowed this pigeonholing bullshit on women? A woman is a multifaceted jewel, each facet reflects the light that hits it and none of them should be in the dark. Women have so much to offer, including their sexuality, and it should be valued just as much as her other traits. Having sex does not equal a lack of respect, and anyone who doesn’t respect you for having sex, is not a respectable human being. Their most likely trash and at that point just throw them out. I’m not entirely sure what threatens people about a woman who knows herself as a sexual being. It’s like they’re afraid we’ll utilize the weapon between our legs and take over the world, too late JoAnn we already fucking did it!
Most importantly you should not be afraid to be a sexual being with your significant other. If they make you feel ashamed of who you are with them, or who you were before them, then best believe there will not be a future with them. The second a dude puts me down about being sexual I’m out of there. I have spent too many years having an unhealthy relationship with sex, feeling embarrassed or ashamed, and now I’m just down to get my freak on. If my partner doesn’t agree then they DON’T have to have sex with me, there are PLENTY of other fine ass specimen worth pursuing.
The most important thing to remember when being a sexual force of nature is to make sure your relationship with sex is healthy. That you are not getting (seriously) physically or emotionally damaged by the sex that you are having. That the sex you are having is completely consensual and not persuaded. It is also important that you do not feel guilty after having sex and if you are then you need to figure out what is causing you to feel that way. Also, shameless mom plug here, but make sure that you are using protection, not only because we don’t need babies, but also STD’s are yucky!!! And get tested regularly!!